Dating can not only be fun but you have to make sure you are getting the best value for your time and money. Let’s face it we all want to meet our soul mate but we want it now not in a few years and right now we have not got money to waste. So the way forward towards meeting your ideal date is to do some groundwork about the many dating sites that are popping up all over the show.


Look at the dating sites that are from your own area then check that the clients on the site are also local. Essex singles is a great example of this and make it so much easier in many ways:

  • You know your own area and where it will be safe to meet.
  • Your friend will know where you are going to meet.
  • There will be no traveling.
  • You can leave whenever you want and grab a taxi home.
  • Less expense.

Dating someone from the same village or town makes the issue of transport so much cheaper by using one car. The local dating guide will have a few to choose from so have a good look at each one and what they offer, they all vary so take your time. I find it is best to pay for a dating site but only if that includes being able to see all of the profiles and contacting them for as long as you want to. Some things cannot be hurried so it’s best to get to know them as much as you can through the dating site before you give them any of your personal details. The Essex dating site is a good one to choose plus has a good following. Sometimes it is best to pay for something that you know is good as it will save you money in the long run. One dating site, one payment, as many dates as it takes to meet your ideal partner so you do not have to pay for any others.


When the time comes for meeting up and getting out for your date you have the lovely Essex countryside for a nice walk, maybe a picnic, or find a country pub for a drink. You don’t have to spend a lot of money on these first dates, even a walk along the beach can be good in the spring.


This twig heart looks so cute and can be made for nothing but then imagine it with flowers wound round into the twigs with some battery fairy lights and you have the perfect present for a date night surprise.

Sometimes it is the very little things in life that mean the most. So let’s go back to thinking simple, personal, and made with love as I am sure anyone would love someone spending time thinking and doing something for them before the date.

Actions speak louder than words but then again words in a poem or letter can mean so very much more.

Love makes the world go round.

Happy dating guys.


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